Monday, October 29, 2007

Falling off the Edge of the Planet


Well, not quite...but, yes, it has been a while since I have put finger-tips to keyboard. It always seems like there is something else to do, or no convenient Internet location. I am leaning towards it being better to experience while I can, and record when there isn't much else to do/distract me.
But today, as I am prone to arriving way too early at the airport for any travel opportunity, I find I am sat at Wellington Airport - en route to Sydney - with time on my hands. Yay!

My last entry was from Invercargill. The winds were whipping in from the southern oceans, and I was enjoying a quiet day with the heater and Diva my sister and brother-in-law-to-be's dog. The next day I moved on to visit with my mate Greg and his wife Carolyn. Greg is a Pharmacist and we met while we were both fresh-out-of-school in our new professions at Wellington Hospital some 18 years back. We had also met up in London while on our O.E., and so have many hangover-inducing nights to reminisce on. He is a great guy.

After deciding that driving in 140km/h winds for 8 hours was unwise I flew up to Christchurch http://www.christchurch.org.nz/ and was met at the airport by Greg and his new son, Christian. A bright snowy-blond, bluer-than-blue eyed bouncing bundle of 5 month-old joy. Such a sweet baby.

We picked Carolyn up, and then continued on to their "batch" in the resort town of Hamner Springs http://www.hanmersprings.co.nz/, which is snuggled into the rolling Canterbury hill country. There are - strangely enough - hot springs in Hamner which makes it a nice place to eat, drink and soak. Which we did. It was a great time, and I very much enjoyed catching up, and relaxing with them as new parents.

Back to Christchurch the next afternoon which included an evening out "on the town". Memories of hangovers past were refreshed the next day, sadly.

The next morning I spent looking around the thriving arts district in the heart of the city, including seeing an amazing photography exhibit at the new art gallery by Ans Westra http://www.christchurchartgallery.org.nz/. It is absolutely brilliant stuff - images that recorded a very unique view of New Zealand life, and one that I identify with very strongly. I found my eyes misty on a number of occasions, and I broke down and had to buy the catalogue. Oh well.
On to Wellington on Friday afternoon, and time in my old stomping grounds. But I'll save that for my next installment...
Ka Kite...




Monday, October 22, 2007

The Deep South

Greetings from Invercargill! My sister Lee-Ann and her fiance Aaron live at one of the furthest-south points of New Zealand, having moved here from the central-north island city of Palmerston North. I flew down here on Friday from my parents place and spent a great weekend with them.
We drove to Aaron's parents holiday home in Te Anau, which sits on a beautiful lake with a stunning view of part of the southern alps. Obviously it would all be so much more interesting if I could upload some pics, but that will have to wait until my return.
The weather was for the most-part good, although there was some wind, rain, and snow down to about 400 meters (we were below the snowline). Lee & Aaron took me out to Queenstown (the tourist capital of the island), and through to Milford Sound, which was phenomenal.
The rainfall in the sound is in the 7 meters per year range, so there was an abundance of waterfalls rolling down the steep cliff sides of the sound and into the deep cold water below. We took a boat trip out into the sound, and were able to get an amazingly up-close appreciation for the grandeur of the place. Simply put, it is incredible. I want to go back in the summer for sure, and would love to be able to hike the Milford Track, which starts out in the sound.
The boat made the two-and-a-half hour trip, which included attempts to drench those of us on board who were silly enough to remain on-deck during up-close looks at some of the more impressive waterfalls. Out to the mouth of the sound - which had been missed twice by Captain James Cook in the 1700's - and then back into the sound. We were lucky enough to have the weather clear for us on the return leg, and so were treated to amazing views of the alps.
I also got to see Kea up close for the first time. Kea are our native parrot, and live high in the alps. They are a rich green colour, and have incredibly sharp, pointy beaks that have caused many a tourist a bloody finger. They are also well-deserved of their reputation of being "cheeky". They are adept at pulling the rubber sealer strip out of car windows, and even shredding tyres. I had only ever seen them on TV, and so the opportunity to get up-close was great.
The opportunity to observe our native birds again is one that I am very much enjoying. The Kowhai trees are heavy laden with their yellow trumpet flowers, and so Tui and Kereru (NZ Pigeon) are jostling with one another to gorge on the succulent flowers and their sweet nectar. Both birds are fat and heavy, but especially the Keeru - which has us all wondering if the Kereru is "good eatin'" as lore has it. The bird song is just wonderful, particularly the Tui.
Aaron's parents - Laurie & Christine - and his sister - Michelle - were wonderful hosts. Lots of laughter and fun - it will be great to see the two families together at the wedding next month. I think there will be a lot of things in common. Laurie has a boat, and so took us out o lake Te Anau yesterday morning - beautiful clear skies, with spectacular views of the snow-covered peaks. Really great folks.
I am very pleased with the life Lee has here with Aaron. She is happy, confident, and so obviously loved by everyone she comes in contact with. She and I have always had a very special close bond, and have even found out we are more alike - if such a thing is possible. Even down to the way we arrange items in the fridge and cabinets (yikes!).
Here are some links that will give you an idea of the places/things this entry talks about - and even an opportunity to hear some bird-song.

Monday, October 15, 2007

Kia Ora from The 'Naki

Home in Taranaki - it is cold, wet and kinda gray...just like I remember it!
Wonderful to see the little boys and meet the little girls (Ellie is just the cutest).
Lots of catching up to do, nice to change gears to chill mode...
More soon - need to get my thoughts together for this entry...

Friday, October 12, 2007

Shabbat in the City

I have had a unique opportunity this Shabbat - to meet the congregation where the boy spent his recent 5 week absence. They are a close-knit, self-sufficient group, with a collective heart of gold. I was greeted with joy and excitement, mixed with a little kiwi reserve, with which I am rapidly remembering. Everyone sent him warm regards and wanted to know if he had made it back to the U.S. in one piece, etc.
I was taken to dinner last night by two members, which was really very nice. It was interesting to hear their experiences of the boy, and hear what i see and know so well reflected back.
This morning I was collected from my hotel and driven to schule where there was more of the same. One person said that he had "heard all about me" from a member of the Wellington congregation I know quite well, Lynda. It's a jolly small world.
The service was quite lovely, and I was brought back to a former Jewish incarnation with tunes I had forgotten I knew, and a familiar pace of prayer. Slower perhaps to what I am now used to, but one that had a feeling of everyone working together to achieve the service.
Afterwards I excused myself and strolled thru the shoppers in Newmarket, a bustling and busy part of the city that had a feel not unlike Sydney. More sticker shock, but the pleasant discovery of a place called Liberty, which seemed to had reasonably priced, stylish furniture. So far almost everything has been far more expensive than I can imagine myself paying in the US.Clothes especially - poly-wool blend pants simply shouldn't cost $350, no matter how "sexy the pocket style" is (according to the sales woman).
I walked back to the hotel and came across the old Jewish cemetery. I took a moment to linger reading the headstones and marveling at the young ages of many of the deceased. The stones had obviously seen better days, and the place looked like it needed some tender loving care. If noting more than planting some bulbs in what now is a muddy patch of grass, and maybe taking to the lichen which semi-obscures some of the names with a scrubbing brush.
Shower and change at the hotel, then a stop here in the cheapest net cafe I have yet found (1 hour = $2), update you all, do some online bill payment, and then off to a quick sashimi dinner before the theatre tonight. Fun!
Next entry will likely be from my parents place in New Plymouth. See you then.

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Welcome Home, Mate

I arrived after what felt like a horribly long time to a wind-swept and damp Auckland. The flight itself was okay. I sat next to a 12 year old choir boy en route home after a two and a half week trip singing his wee heart out as part of the National Boys Choir of Australia. He wasn't terribly talkative, and kind of mumbled, but there was a distinct sweetness about him. Home for him was Melbourne - which was the onward portion of the flight from Auckland - so we had a bit of a connection. Although he wasn't quite sure where Parkville was, until I used the Melbourne Zoo as a point of reference. The range of in-flight movies/TV/music was quite amazing, although it didn't compensate for the chair itself, much.
I made it to the hotel via taxi driven by a Samoan guy who had lived in NZ for 35 years. We talked about home being home, and how it was always the "one day plan" to live at home again. The fare was an astronomical $67 which makes me quite sure that I will be going to take a bus to the airport en route to New Plymouth on Monday.
My hotel is centrally located, just off Queen Street, behind the Civic Centre. Easy walking to the CBD, as well as the inner suburb centers like Ponsonby and Parnell. After a hot bath, unpacking a bit and realizing that the pangs I was having were due to the fact I was bloody hungry I made my way with the morning rush hour to get something to eat.
Ponsonby Road is an easy walk, and I decided to stop into a funky looking hair dressers and asked the lady behind the counter where she'd go for a yummy breakfast if she were in the market. She pointed me down the street about 4 blocks to a place called Cafe Dizengoff.
Little dogs on zip-leashes are popular here too, sadly. I stopped en route at a news agents and bought a copy of GQ with Clive Owen on the cover, and the latest copy of North & South, an old favorite from way-back-when. After ordering breakfast I took a seat at a table with a great view of the street and the tables outside, which even though it was chilly, were quite popular spots to sit by the looks of things.
The eggs (poached) that came had the most incredible yellow/orange yolks, and they smiled at me gleefully as I poked their creamy centers with torn-off pieces of crunchy ciabatta toast, smeared generously with yellow butter and a tasty green pesto. A glass of orange juice, a hot steaming latte, and a poached egg "Welcome home, mate" - $17.
At about 09:50 came an invasion of small bare-footed and colourfully dressed kiwis. One of them was maybe four years old and took great delight in chatting to his Mummy about the people at the next table. Out came a click-clack box from her bag from which was removed a bag of veggie snacks and an all too-familiar red box of raisins. Talk about a blast from the past. Mummy drank her bowl of latte and he happily munched as the wind tossed his red hair across his fair-skinned and freckled face.
I could feel my eyes beaming a blue-hot light of sheer delight at the scene I was witnessing. I could feel them being transformed from brown to a pure, rich, fern-forest green, as I soaked it all in.
After satiating myself (on so many levels) at Dizengoff I strolled on up Ponsonby Road, then down towards the city again. I took a route via the Victoria Market, only because I needed to use the lav, then on to Queen Street, past Sky City. Back to the hotel for a bit of a rest before heading to the Auckland War Memorial Museum. The weather was not 100% conducive with walking, but it managed to hold off just long enough for me to make it thru the park to the steps of the museum before it chased me inside.
The museum is filled with some amazing artifacts of maoritanga, including textiles, carvings and architecture. I took a ton of photos that I hope to fold in to my pottery in the future. There was also a display of children's items. It was quite fun to spot things I remembered so clearly - but also a little scary to see that toys I played with are now museum pieces!
I was delighted to find that the museum also has a huge collection of New Zealand made ceramics and spent a lot of time photographing and making notes on the artists and their work. It was really quite something. Rain fell in sheets while I was there as well. The museum is on a hill looking out over the harbour, and so I had quite a vantage point from the columned main entrance, as I was leaving. I stood and watched for a short time, and then it was gone almost as soon as it had arrived.
I walked on to Parnell Road, and found the shops, bars, and restaurants interesting enough. There were some lovely galleries with beautiful pieces of pottery to look at, just as well it was only the beginning of the trip. I had a second latte and a piece of carrot cake at Cafe Citron Vert ($8). I read some of my book on Jung, watched the cars go by, and had a look at the paper.
Dinner was a yummy basket of battered snapper and chips with garlic aioli washed down with a diet coke at a place simply called the Fishmonger ($14). Again I got to sit near the window and watch people en route home. The post-work rush unfolded, complete with long green buses stopping outside the fish shop to load and un-load their human cargo. It is fun looking at what people are wearing; on the whole men are kind of dull, simple and understated (unlike West Hollywood, for sure). The women wear way-less make-up, which seems to give their faces much more reality and freedom of expression.
I love seeing the full range of kiwi faces; pakeha, maori, pacific islander, asian. The steady stream of customers for the fish shop reflecting this kaleidoscope of humanity.
The walk back to the hotel was long and I was mighty happy to fill the tub again and soak for a while before bed.

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

"T" Minus 8 Hours

So here I am in count-down mode. The bags are more-or-less packed, the Passport and endless sheets of confirmation papers all tucked safe-and-sound in my carry-on. Clothes are laid out, and I worked my last shift before leaving. B'ruch Ha'Shem it was a very short and an easy on-call shift.
I couldn't sleep (of course) last night, and this morning if it weren't for multiple loads of laundry I am quite sure I'd be pulling my hair out (what there is of it). It is quite an anxiety ridden idea to me to be home, and to be home for all this time. Six weeks is a long time to be free of work and commitments, and a long time to be okay with that.
I have sent many e-mails titled "Homeward Bound" to many different friends/family/folks in New Zealand. I am seeking them out where ever I can, and wanting to make plans with as many as possible. I have plans on my own for Friday and Saturday in Auckland, as well as some that have fallen through. I am going to see what comes up and look at not having things planned "to the last minute" as being an adventure in itself. Escape the rigidity I so often place upon myself.
I am looking forward to time exploring Auckland, beyond Queen Street. I have spent next-to-no time there as an adult, and have next-to no idea what life there is actually like. I want to get a taste for the place, and aim to find cafes, eateries, as well as quiet spots to take a walk, read a book, and enjoy the views.
I never travel well. I am usually far too caught up in the "okay, let's get going" mode to enjoy the journey itself. I am trying to remain calm, but it is all a bit much, if you ask me.The added re-introduction to family after a near-on two year absence is always one I find difficult. We often say in my family that we pick up where we left off, which while a true statement of our love for each other I would like this re-introduction to fold in more of who I am now as a forty-year old man.
My parents while not elderly, are getting older. They are no longer the couple struggling with a full house of children, they too have grown into new people. I want to meet them on an adult level, and introduce a new and different me - just as I want to meet a new and different them.
I'll keep you up to date...until then, travel safe.

Friday, October 05, 2007

Celebrate Good Times!

Generally, I go through life mad at the stupidity around me in the world, not unlike Miss Co-Co Peru. Ms Peru hates 'em with a pure anger and viciousness I envy her of. She allows herself to bellow at them all with all her heart. She is, or has been, pissed off with every-one, and every-thing.
Josh and Daniel e-mailed me about cheap tickets to see the opening night of Co-co's new show. A world premier, no less. She is the skinniest bitch I know, and I love how brazen she is. If I was a chick, that's the kind of chick I'd like to be, for maybe a day.
I did however, find myself agreeing with more than one or two of the "peeves" she talked about tonight. Litter, and the people who leave it. People who flick cigarette butts on the ground from their cars as they drive down Sunset Blvd, talking on their cell phones. Stupidly obnoxious people, and the numb-nuts things they say while they stand next to you at the baggage-claim carousel.
Consumerism, and the isolation it creates. The overwhelming trend of going through life oblivious. Treating the planet and other people with anything-but respect. Yet she allowed me to laugh through it all, with her. B'ruch Ha'Shem, I am not alone!
I was also "not alone" last night, at services for Simhat Torah. There is a phenomenal place, relatively new in Los Angeles. A minyan, a chavurah, a k'hilah. Simhat Torah to the maximum! I throw myself into the ecstatic prayer experience in this place, and it is an overwhelming experience.
My friend Merav would say "Me'ah achuz, Motek!" I amazed myself again last night, as I so frequently do at this place. I danced, sang, prayed, watched, was observed, and was filled with awe at this thing called Torah.
I shall have to sit with it some more, and blog about it another time. I even accepted an Aliyah. I pledge to open myself up to change, this year.

Wednesday, October 03, 2007

On The Road, Again...

In six days I'll be leaving Los Angeles for six weeks in New Zealand. I will be seeing family and friends, and re-connecting with my "kiwi self". It's been a long time since I have spent any "decent" time in my little country, so I am really quite excited. Actually, that is an understatement.
It is a bitter-sweet trip, as I'll be going alone. The boy is there currently, and will return himself on Saturday having spent 5 weeks there in Auckland ministering to the good folks at Beth Shalom.
We will have spent almost three months apart by the time I get back the day after Thanksgiving. Shitty timing, to say the least.
I've got all kinds of fun things planned. Theatre, concerts, site seeing, relaxing, sleeping, eating, drinking, exercising, praying, walking, running, standing still. There are nieces and a nephew to meet, and nephews to catch up with. There is a wedding (my sister Lee-Ann to the oh-so-handsome Aaron), and sundry other family events. There are the babies of friends to tickle, a myriad of people to spend quality time with.
An entire self to find, again.